tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27760800376767952052024-03-14T22:30:42.538+08:00Life is HardListen, are you breathing just a little and calling it a life?Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.comBlogger248125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-45242744103301119422016-11-06T23:51:00.001+08:002016-11-06T23:51:49.667+08:00The moment.<p dir="ltr">A guy and a girl who madly love each other sat on the edge of the cliff in the middle of the serene, silent night in the woods. Sometimes the silence broke by the sounds of the crackling crickets. No conversation made, just the distance warmth felt by the presence of each other sitting side by side. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The perfect moment to say to the girl, "look at the stars, look how they shine for you".<br>
They stargazed, witnessing the beauty of each constellation shines to both of them. I bet the feelings were like flowers blooming so bright in the huge garden behind a flower-lady's backyard. I bet the moment was the best.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Perfect.<br>
Nobody can beat that moment.<br>
Not even a guy came with a surprise in a limousine.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I lost. I'm jealous. So jealous i could cry.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-68940205591054694122016-09-24T21:42:00.001+08:002016-09-24T21:42:35.444+08:00Overthink woman <p dir="ltr">Why would a guy whom has rejected you based on God knows what's the reason is, still interested in viewing your instastories? Why does he wants? Befriend with me? Or considering me back? </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-47049429173805395162016-05-07T23:43:00.001+08:002016-05-07T23:49:20.032+08:00Nafs.<p dir="ltr">Actually it's not what i want (nafs). I'm a Muslim, I'll follow what Allah told me to, Allah told me to respect, obey and give mercy to our parents. If you achieve redha from your parents, then you'll get redha from Allah too. It's stated in the Quran. Quran is a book/guidance/words of Allah to us, through The Prophet. In the Quran also, stated a lot of times to not follow our nafs. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In my case, i want to get posted away from home. To Perlis or to Sabah. But my parents want me to work near home. At Johor, Melaka or Negeri Sembilan. I remember vividly what was my reaction to their demand. I was mad to be honest, because they were the kind of parents who don't mind and they encourage their children to explore and have an adventure in life. When they demand like that, i was mad. I told my friend about it, and they said, it's you who'll work, not them. I took his advice then. </p>
<p dir="ltr">But somehow deeeeep down in my heart, i know it's wrong, but i don't get it clearly why is it wrong. So i still hold on to his advice. I raised my voice to my parents a lot after i held to his advice. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Then, i thought wtf was i doing? Why am i so derhaka? Am i derhaka or am i just want what i want? I was clueless. Then i opened a few YouTube videos (ustaz nouman ali khan and hadith open mic) on parents, in Islam. He said, Allah told us to pay attention to our parents. In solat, even if you're not khusyuk enough, inshaallah your solat will be accepted. But with your parents, you can't even say "ah" to them. Why do you think Allah forbids us to say so? </p>
<p dir="ltr">Guys, listen to your parent's demands, respect them, give mercy to them as long as it doesn't go against syara'. Do not make a decision that is driven by emotions, nafs. Because when you listen to your parents, there's always hikmah behind it. If you want something that is against your parent's will, sit and discuss nicely. Pray to Allah to soften their heart, to show you and them what decision is the best for you. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Remember that syurga di bawah tapak kaki ibu.  There must be reason why syurga di bawah tapak kaki ibu. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-46950112599544611972016-04-11T20:26:00.001+08:002016-05-07T23:41:50.843+08:00My idol.<p dir="ltr">As cliché as it sounds, its Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. He is the Messenger of Allah. He is the teacher to his people. He is also the leader of human beings, including all races. He is the bearer of good news. Pembawa berita gembira. </p>
<p dir="ltr">What good news? Good news are the news of what he had been doing 1400 years ago. Tell people to spread peace and love by loving (and believing that) The Only One God, Allah and follow the Prophet's teachings and do good deeds, be nice to people. Allahu akbar. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Indeed, what a role model he is.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-30842413336767209172016-04-02T20:43:00.001+08:002016-04-02T20:43:43.076+08:00Dreams and the world.<p dir="ltr">What a very confused world this is. Everybody preach about how you should pursue your dreams, aim higher in your life, do something unique, spice up your life a little, no matter how stupid your dreams sounds.</p>
<p dir="ltr">But in reality, you can't because it's impossible eventhough it sounds possible. Just because the world is meant to be like that. And to me, those who pursued their dreams successfully, are just lucky. Not all people will support your effing dreams. Because to them they're just plain stupid and unrealistic. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In reality, not all people support you achieving your dreams. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-43533908042959622482016-03-04T19:14:00.001+08:002016-03-04T19:19:02.746+08:00Me.<p dir="ltr">I ask stupid questions to brilliant people and i don't know what they genuinely feel about it, because i feel very stupid and i just want to know and i don't know how to ask brilliant questions to them because i just don't know. I'm sorry that I'm stupid like that. </p>
<p dir="ltr">I'm not degrading myself, but i know what i am. And know what i want. I want to befriend and surrounded with brilliant people and i love being surrounded by them but i don't like what my thoughts of them thinking about me made me feel. </p>
<p dir="ltr">You know what i mean? No, of course you don't. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-10054986487627528782016-01-07T02:07:00.001+08:002016-01-07T02:07:55.681+08:00Goals. <p dir="ltr">Another new year resolution is i want to less rolling my eyes to any annoying situations. I want to be kind kind kind. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Like genuinely not feeling annoyed with anything, hence no rolling eyes. The act of rolling eyes are so bitchy. But i do it all the time. Maybe i should decrease it fr 100% to 75%. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-57770466566115901312016-01-06T01:17:00.001+08:002016-01-06T01:19:40.546+08:00Goals.<p dir="ltr">More to life resolutions actually. I have this dreams. A dream of what kind of woman i wanna be in future (or i am preparing). One of them is, i wanna practice a life principle: when people treat you like crap, give them flowers.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Here's the thing. X didn't care for me like i care for X. So X did 'something' which broke my heart so bad, i cried. And i can foresee that X will forgets about what happened (bcs it didn't matter to X), and X will continue life like nothing had happened. I was so mad and sad, i should be doing the same thing to X lah kan? I should ignore and avoid any communication with X. But what happened just now was, i reply to X's tweet on how not well X is. Because obviously i still care. And instinct telling me to be nice and not to respond/ignore like <u>crap</u> X did to me. Because it's just not the nicest thing to do to people. </p>
<p dir="ltr">So the dilemma is, am i doing the right thing by give X flowers, or am i damaging/suffering myself because i know X will still not realize what had X done to me and there'll be high tendency for X to repeat the same 'something' that broke my heart? </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-9541213912506472452016-01-03T16:04:00.001+08:002016-01-03T16:04:07.651+08:00Death is inevitable part 2. <p dir="ltr">Remember about the same post, part 1? I Alhamdulillah survived the hike to gunung pulai with not so strong knee. The track is hard, and my knee did twist after 20 minutes of ascending. But i kept on hiking for 3 hours. I though I'd take 5 hours to descend, but i took 3 hours plus plus to descend. So very santai hiking really. But i was very mentally damaged during descending. I still remember what i thought that day. I wanted to quit hiking for good. But when i reached back at the homestay, i thought what was i thinking. I'm sure will still hike. But I'll let my knee rest for a few months lah. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Nevertheless, Alhamdulillah, because Allah still gives me a chance to live and repent and do good and spread love.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-33029747716152193442016-01-02T17:34:00.001+08:002016-01-02T17:34:25.505+08:00That one bestfriend.<p dir="ltr">So is this the end of it? From what i see, you pull yourself away from me. Without any reason. Leave me feel like an arse. Waiting, while you forgetting. </p>
<p dir="ltr">This is not a relationship or anything. Its just, friendship. Soulmates, as you may label us. You actually MIA, and don't search for me. If you'd ask, why didn't i search for you? Answer is, i always did, but i always got declined. Then i stop.</p>
<p dir="ltr">It sucks, cos I've waited. And stay optimistic, find all the good values about you that seems to be decreasing. And when your enemy are nice to me, it made me thought, why have they became enemies to you, since they're nice to me, and I'd say you're not. </p>
<p dir="ltr">After all, you've always did this to me, and successfully come back into my life as if nothing had happened. I too, will be cheered to see you, and all of a sudden forgetting what have you done. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Wait, you never know what you've done. Because theoretically, you have done nothing. Literally. Its just me. I'm the one to blame, for what i feel. I overthink, about you. What a waste of my brain cells.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Its my fault, to not keep my heart focus to The One: Allah, hence waiting for you, having feelings towards you, hoping that you'd feel the same, too dependent on human.</p>
<p dir="ltr">My fault, entirely. Shame. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-53039731225355043242015-12-30T07:14:00.001+08:002015-12-30T07:14:13.383+08:00Annoyed<p dir="ltr">Don't anybody ever play "aku nak kau" shit. Ain't nobody got time for that. I got a hell lot to achieve in my life rather than thinking about that. </p>
<p dir="ltr">I am surprised myself.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After all this while, being at this age, everybody has been talking about relationships this and thats. I, too, participated in this conversation. I mean, who doesn't get excited to know who'll their spouse be?</p>
<p dir="ltr">Until yesterday, a guy came to me and said all these bullshits, like "what will happen if one of our classmates is your future husband?", idk if he's referring to himself or what, but no thank you. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Its the old me (read: the old me whom changed after my last ex-bf which successfully transformed me to a woman who got sick in relationship) again. I thought that woman has long gone, or rather, has long moved on after 5 years. But she definitely still the old-traumatised-woman who didn't look forward into any relationship at all. Rupanya. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Or maybe, I'm changed. Like i am so not looking forward to a relationship 'like this'. 'Like this' means, telling me that he wants me directly to me. Hm so old school, so conventional, so religious, but who cares.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Okay maybe i am overreacting. Maybe the guy was just joking. Which was good, because it actually made me realise that i don't like that. Lol.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-27184300002561394692015-12-13T16:57:00.001+08:002015-12-13T16:57:34.995+08:00Zauj Part 2.after posting the previous post, i reread my previous previous post. just to let anybody who read that post, the cousin that i have fonded of, has already engaged with a better woman. despite the over-nervous that i felt when i met him, he's definitely not my jodoh lah. i can now stop being all giddy about him.<br />
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bye.Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-58660159715930956502015-12-13T16:49:00.001+08:002015-12-13T16:49:25.489+08:00Death is inevitable.as so you guys know, i'm into hiking. i hiked a few hills and mountains. i like being in the jungle, serene and green, away from the city, saturated with unpolluted fresh air. though it's just like walking in the mall for hours, except it's in the jungle, and maybe a bit of ascending, climbing and sliding. i have very little experience, i never hiking and camping. i've done only daypack trips.<br />
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so i haven't hike for almost two months now, because i twisted my right knee from the last hike at bukit kutu. i landed wrongly. for your information, when you hike down, you put a lot of pressure to your knees. hence, you have to flex your knees all the time when you hike down. but what i had done, was i locked my right knee straight when i landed at a wrong time. i guess because i was pressured with the team that i went with. they're so fast so good, i got pumped.<br />
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to cut the stories of my knee short, i went to see the doctor, and i was asked to rest for three months (at least two months). if my knee still not okay after that period of time, i'll be referred to the orthopaedics specialist to take mri or something.<br />
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being an active creature myself, i can't resist to say no when there's any hiking plan ahead. especially when it's affordable and when i think my knee is ready to hike again. i've said no to a few plans within a month though. so, when i think my knee is okay, i signed up to a trip to gunung baling and gunung pulai this 19-20th december. so hyped about to go hike again.<br />
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today, when i was performing my zuhur prayer, i was obviously not 100% khusyuk when my mind was thinking about this upcoming trip. i heard the track is challenging. there got rock to climb like bukit tabur. i hiked bukit tabur (east) - the hardest track of tabur as they said, so i can somehow imagine how the track at gunung pulai and gunung baling will be. it's like climbing an 85 degree cliff without rope attached to you. talking about safety huh. it was totally a risk. you need to be smart enough to think about, first: which part of the rock that is stable and strong enough to hold, second: whether or not your hands are strong to carry your body up while you climb, third: the position of your body while you climb - all sorts of stretching to reach and hold on, fourth: to weigh your capabilities - whether you capable enough to do it or not. in conclusion, it's not easy for an amateur like me. but nevertheless, i did bukit tabur, so i guess i can do gunung pulai and baling.<br />
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but the question is: can i do it with my fragile knee?<br />
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although it has been almost two months i didn't hike, i actually had two incidents where i twisted my knee again: when i was about to get out from the car at a very limited and narrow space, and when i climb up the stairs (two steps at a time). so i'm kinda afraid to start hiking again. because my knee got twisted at the two very simple activities. i cannot imagine how my knee will behave when i'll be hiking again.<br />
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what my mind wandered during prayer was, i imagined myself rock climbing at the gunung, then my knee decided to twist again, then i'll be in pain and probably my reflex will let my hands off the grip, and i fall. and god knows how i'll fall. maybe i fall on the damped soil, or on the trees, or on the rocky rocks and my back will get hit with the pointy bark of the trees or my head get banged with the rocks and bleed the hell out, or simply fall off the cliff and go into the gaung and MIA. god knows.<br />
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so all these wild imaginations came up to me, then i got scared. what if i die after that? i'm not prepared with any of that. crazy not prepared. but, who is anyway? then i'm panicked, scared to die, thinking about what deeds and sins i've done. no way i can get into heaven with my current deeds. no.<br />
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then, i was thinking about how my family feels when i'm dead. i am supposed to be working after i finish studies and help them with anything, as we're not coming from a wealthy one. i was rethinking about going to the trip, ready to burn my rm50 deposit.<br />
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after a short time of freaking out, i came back to my senses. i remembered Allah mentioned in the quran, 7:34, when the time of someone's death arrive, not anybody or anything can delay or speed it by even one second. another verse i stumbled in quran, 4:78, wherever you maybe, death will overtake you, even if you're in the towers with strong construction. another one i read, right after i freaked out is from surah al-mu'minun. He explains on how humans are created on verse 12-14. then on the fifteenth verse, He said, "then indeed, after that you are to die".<br />
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which made me rationalize of what people keep on saying about how the world is just a stopover, an r&r. because after we died, we definitely be resurrected back on the Day of judgement, as Allah mentioned on the following verse. He'll judge us according to our deeds and sins, and place us whether in heaven or hell, either of it, is the infinity of our afterlife.<br />
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so i thought, even if i rethink on going to the trip, if i meant to die on that moment, where if i go, i should be dead by falling off the cliff with twisted knee, then if i decided not to go, i will die on some ways, maybe like i fall in the toilet ke, who knows. because my time has come. it doesn't matter about the age, because death is inevitable. or if i won't fall and die at gunung baling, maybe i will fall and die and different gunung. because maybe Allah recorded (in Luh Mahfuz) that i will die during hiking. only Allah knows how and when i die. wallahu'alam.<br />
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hm, so i'll just follow the flow, and leave to Allah on anything. because He knows everything in the heaven and the earth (22:70). at the same time, let us keep praying that we'll have a good ending. and let's keep doing good deeds and go back to the straight path. like in surah al-fatihah, in the verse 6 and 7. "guide us to the straight path. the path of those upon whom You have bestowed favour, not of those who have evoked Your anger or of those who are astray".<br />
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after writing all these verses, despite i've calmed down after reciting the quran, after freaking out like a crazy woman about death falling off the cliff, indeed quran is our guide in life. so many things are mentioned in it. so interesting especially if we discovered ourselves that we actually can relate a lot to it, like in this post.<br />
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have fun reading the quran, guys.<br />
<br />Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-6310451318060518362015-08-23T07:56:00.001+08:002015-08-23T07:56:21.784+08:00Zauj.<p dir="ltr"><i>"I wanna be that kinda of people when they talk, they only talk good stuffs and beneficial."</i></p>
<p dir="ltr">Okay that's my muqadimah. So yesterday at kak bieja's wedding, mak teh and 'mak angkat' were so excited to see me when i came and salam them at the entrance. They're super excited and tell each other how i will be mak teh's <i>'bakal menantu'. </i></p>
<p dir="ltr">You know who's mak teh? Besides being adam's aunty, she's also an <i>akhawat</i>. Adam knew i am fond of his cousin (mak teh's son), just because i know he's an ikhwah. On the <i>nikah</i> day (the day before yesterday), Adam introduced me to mak teh and told her how i am into usrah that kinda thing too, and she got excited, we talked about it and finally she said, "<i>esok anak makcik ada, nanti boleh lah kenal-kenal"</i>. Next day i know, she's over the moon to see me. </p>
<p dir="ltr">And me? Super duper excited, and super nervous like i never feel so nervous about meeting people like this before. (Ok tipu lah, maybe jumpa lecturer yang garang aku ada nervous yang sama)</p>
<p dir="ltr">I came to the wedding as adam's bff since high school. We're like siblings already yknow. Siblings-no limitations-gelak-like-crazy-hilang-ayu kinda closed. So, the cousin was there, if he ever knows that how his mother said about me being 'bakal', it'd be a major turned off for him to see me freely mix around with non-muhrim like that. Its not like we <i>bertepuk tampar </i>and what not, its just we talked non-embarassingly comfortable with each other. (Me, gf, gf's sister, adam, wan)</p>
<p dir="ltr">However, I honestly don't know how to deal with that. Part of me know that it's wrong, and part of me <u>want</u> to be me (nafs?). </p>
<p dir="ltr">If i was the cousin, i wouldn't want my bakal zaujah to be the kinda woman who can easily mingle with non-muhrim like that. As if she has no sensitivity at all about how Allah said non-muhrims can't mingle unless there's a purpose.</p>
<p dir="ltr">So i ended up went home with sadness. Hahaha. Disappointed with myself i guess. But i don't wanna be a hypocrite. That's just me. I am like that, i am easily mingled with the guys (even before ditarbiah lagi). I'm not awkward like that. So this perangai of mine, terbawa-bawa although after ditarbiah. And i gotta admit, this perangai of mine is the most difficult to change. Gotta jihad and fight myself real hard with this one, i believe. But I'm glad, i be myself instead of cover-cover padahal real life tak macam tu pun.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Then i thought again, one shouldn't be judging oneself. Only Allah can judge me. But, first impression plays a helluva big role. </p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-78706863421311352352015-08-06T07:58:00.001+08:002015-08-06T07:58:18.911+08:00Subuh<p dir="ltr">Salam after so many months I left here.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Summary of my life: I've failed to complete the freaking clinical requirements and hence i have to extend another semester and inshaallah will be finishing around February and will get posted probably on August.</p>
<p dir="ltr">So currently, I'm having my 2 months plus of semester break. Puasa, raya with family and friends. I can say that this holiday is very destressing, i love it. </p>
<p dir="ltr">But, one thing that i don't like when I'm particularly at home. I solat subuh late. This is not membuka pekung di dada. I want to express and want solutions from readers (if there's any lol) for my problem.</p>
<p dir="ltr">When I'm at home, old habit of lazy to pray and wanting to sleep all day and wake up when the sun already rised up (NOON!) are back. it's annoying. Because when I'm at college, i have schedule. Hence, my life was a bit organized. But when i have no schedule, i slept late, i woke up for subuh late. In fact this morning, i already woke up at 0608, but i decided to woke up at 0630 because iman level is beneath the sea level. But i end up woke up at 0700. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Have you heard of something like you are synonymly been covered with pig's skin when you already conscious for subuh, but you go back to sleep and konon-kononnya to wake up later?</p>
<p dir="ltr">Idk where i heard that, but its so scary. And one more, this one i heard from a lecture. If the same situation happened, but instead of you woke up late for subuh, you woke up the time after subuh and you wanna qada' subuh. And the qada' is not accepted. It'll be accepted when you're totally unconscious the whole subuh. </p>
<p dir="ltr">I hate the fact that i woke up late for subuh. The fact that i took 15 minutes to wake my sisters until they seriously wake up, is more annoying. What happened today is after 6 days of menstruation (read: 6 days of not waking up for subuh). Its okay, i pray that i still have tomorrow for improvement. Ameen.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-83618800135072474462015-02-13T05:11:00.001+08:002015-02-13T05:22:42.739+08:00Nightmare<p dir="ltr"><u>You</u> know its a nightmare when you woke up worried. </p>
<p dir="ltr">So in  that dream, i was about to leave a cafe. Pushing the glass doors out, and there's a guy sitting at the smoking area with a pair of shades on. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Then he stopped me. So i was standing, and he was sitting. His head exactly straight at my waist area. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Then he stares at my thighs, because in that dream i wore skinny jeans with a top that is not long enough to cover my thighs obviously. While he's staring at it, he slightly pulled the side of my jeans and said, "Hmm ketat", with a psyho voice and look. </p>
<p dir="ltr">SCARY WEH! It happened so fast! About three seconds, i would say?  I know its not scary enough to some of you. But in that dream, i was well of course scared and i felt so mad at him, because how dare he touched me! And the ultimate feeling was, i felt insulted, humiliated. I feel so cheap that he can suka-suka touch me like that. </p>
<p dir="ltr">I don't know whether this nightmare has a message or not. Whether it's a way for Allah to convey me a message or its shaitan. But the contents of the dream, it has value. Value that I can appreciate. </p>
<p dir="ltr">I wear regular-tapered-jeans kinda cut (its 1 mm loose from skinny jeans if you guys can't imagine). But I wanna get rid of it because I know it's so tight that it's not good for me. Not good (read as not covering the aurah well).</p>
<p dir="ltr">When I was on the plane to Jogjakarta, I borrow Een's 'Reclaim Your Heart' by Yasmin Mogahed. Then I stumble upon a paragraph (attached it together here). I know its a message Allah sent me through this book. It hits me so bad, that I decided to leave the regular-tapered jeans I was wearing at the hotel we're about to stay. And buy more skirts or pants that are loosely fit.</p>
<p dir="ltr">So why I wrote this? It's because I want to remember this 'nightmare' (right after I woke up from the dream, I reached my phone and engraving it while it still fresh in my mind). And I hope anybody who reads this (is there anybody who still reading blog posts though?) will take this realization and do something with your aurah too. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Verily, Allah really doesn't like His slave to wear something humiliating. Allah Maha Penyayang. Allah knows this humiliation will happen, that's why He asks us to cover our aurah really well.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I repeat, COVER our aurah, not WRAP it. </p>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjarPT5R-Bz63EoxRYNXjLQ3MV9bNVI5cwxPB6V7gx5zoHPPTYDJaZwbNNKj2vtyWKb9pe1EcB8vAUCx995Wpcox-i-yO7FYH4P2GXMdk7TJYOM-Oa6xq7GOp24C8oOyx0QR0Byrn0ARBs/s1600/IMG_20150206_113405.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"> <img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjarPT5R-Bz63EoxRYNXjLQ3MV9bNVI5cwxPB6V7gx5zoHPPTYDJaZwbNNKj2vtyWKb9pe1EcB8vAUCx995Wpcox-i-yO7FYH4P2GXMdk7TJYOM-Oa6xq7GOp24C8oOyx0QR0Byrn0ARBs/s640/IMG_20150206_113405.jpg"> </a> </div>Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-84801215392375120492015-01-08T08:46:00.001+08:002015-01-08T08:46:21.942+08:00Hatred<p dir="ltr">I don't know. But lately, I hate you. <br>
Gosh Nani, why do you have so many hatred in you? </p>
<p dir="ltr">But as much as husnudzon I want to do, your actions counter it back. </p>
<p dir="ltr">YOU LOOK DOWN AT PEOPLE!</p>
<p dir="ltr">Whyyy?</p>
<p dir="ltr">Not everybody is gifted like you. Not everybody is as lucky as you. </p>
<p dir="ltr">So don't.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Ps: I came across a tweet, it said 'if you have problems with people, it means that you have problems with Allah<br></p>
<p dir="ltr">So sad isn't it? Like you hate people, and you know you have it because you have problems with your God. *cry*</p>
<p dir="ltr">But I really think she should not do that. And he should not do that to me everytime. *cry*</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-69183668879204455942014-10-05T19:38:00.001+08:002014-10-05T19:53:54.523+08:00Dilemma<p dir="ltr">This is big issue. Its regarding smoking. Dilemma between dakwah or taat perintah ibu bapa.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I know a story where, they've encountered (a hell lot of times) where their dad ask them to buy him a box of cigarettes. Which they USED to buy for him since they were little. But now they realize that smoking is not good for their dad's health and its haram too. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Sidetrack: How do I know its haram? Logically, when something that Allah said its haram, its either not good for you or because it will lead your heart astray from the path to worship Allah. </p>
<p dir="ltr">And so because they love their dad so much, they agreed to each other not to help their dad buy cigarettes anymore. </p>
<p dir="ltr">One day, the dad ask A to buy. But she refused. Then dad sighed angrily and asked, "dosa sangat ke?", she answered, " ha'ah". </p>
<p dir="ltr">Simple short question that their dad asked, already made everyone of them sentap and A cried. Then, B tewas. She went to the shop and helped their dad buy one. Then miracle happened. Allah seriously tests us, whether we choose to buy or not. B came back and said, "marlboro light dah habis". MashaAllah. Allah helps us, so easy. Macam tu jek. MashaAllah. </p>
<p dir="ltr">When Allah said no, then its a no.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Okay tu jek.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-43924650961118988012014-07-02T12:37:00.001+08:002014-07-02T12:37:09.351+08:00Tadabbur AlamI once scribbled something when we were on our way back to Shah Alam from Sg Buloh. The note was on 17th March 2014.<br />
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"I'm on my way to faculty. In the van, sitting next to En. Hasni, the driver.<br />
<br />
Observing through this window of how the weather is today.<br />
<br />
I remember how hot and dry, drought the weather was. The woods were burnt anywhere I go. Through out any journey, left and right. There were several burnt woods.<br />
<br />
A few days ago, rain pouring heavily and drizzling, alternately.<br />
<br />
And HAZE, innalillah, the haze was so bad.<br />
<br />
It was so bad, that my hijab smells like one. The smoke stucked in my hijab.<br />
It was so bad, that my throat is phlegm-ish and I coughed like WTV today.<br />
It was so bad, that my eyes were in pain as I walked to anywhere.<br />
<br />
And today, looking out this window, through this Guthrie highway and thought, "Masha-Allah. Alhamdulillah, the weather has turned like it supposed to".<br />
<br />
Then again I thought, how Great The One is.<br />
He is so Great, that He can just do whatever to us. To the lands and clouds and anything in between them.<br />
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He is The Right.<br />
He is so Right that anything He does, has the reason behind it. He has the right to do this.<br />
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He is Strong.<br />
Too powerful, that He can just make the Sun so bright.<br />
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So bright, the woods got burnt.<br />
So bright, the water got evaporated.<br />
So bright, the water supplies got disrupted.<br />
So bright, the rain are afraid to form.<br />
So bright, the white clouds got disappeared from the clear blue skies.<br />
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He controls everything. He can make the haze came and go. Though they said the rain poured down because they did cloud seeding, whatever it is. Alhamdulillah. It won't work if Allah said no.<br />
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One more thing I realized, although the woods burnt down, the branches left are still beautiful. Masha-Allah. How Great Allah is? I told you, He just do it.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">"<span style="background-color: #fffff2; font-family: Georgia; line-height: 24px;">Originator of the heavens and the earth. When He decrees a matter, <span style="color: blue;">He only says to it, "Be," and it is.</span>"</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #fffff2; font-family: Georgia; line-height: 24px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Quran 2:117</span></span></div>
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Too Powerful, too Great,<br />
He can get the trees alive back by pouring the rain,<br />
He can get the trees die off by let the Sun goes as bright as it can.<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia; line-height: 24px;"><span style="font-size: large;">"And of His signs is [that] He shows you the lightening [causing] fear and aspiration, and <span style="color: blue;">He sends down rain from the sky by which He brings to life the earth after its lifelessness</span>. Indeed in that are signs for a people who use reason."</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia; line-height: 24px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Quran 30:24</span></span></div>
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If He The Great can do that to the skies, the lands and anything in between, why would you think He can't does the same thing to us, humans?<br />
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<br />
Destinies written in Luh Mahfuz.<br />
MH370; disappear, die, or alive?<br />
Overdose in FMFA; mati katak je.<br />
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Aren't any of these enough evidences for us what Allah is trying to show?<br />
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Come on, Nani.<br />
Have faith and improve yourself.Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-36989643723121273002014-06-17T01:55:00.000+08:002014-06-17T01:55:04.620+08:00Oh dear dentistry - REQUIREMENTSNo I won't extend.<br />
No I WON'T.<br />
<br />
But, towards the end of year 4, I haven't have enough case.<br />
<br />
I only issued one pair of denture. 8 units to go.<br />
And I have 1 year to kejar?<br />
Am I serious?<br />
Gila ke apa ni!<br />
(CRY!)<br />
<br />
With single canal and endo molar lagi.<br />
Am I serious?<br />
<br />
With crowns and bridges.<br />
With only 2 points for site 2 posterior.<br />
Site 2 anterior still zero.<br />
Am I serious?<br />
(CRY!)<br />
<br />
With Removable appliance yang only 3 patients tu?<br />
I need 2 more.<br />
Fixed appliance inshaAllah can kejar.<br />
But seriously nani!?<br />
<br />Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-60963496017705605062014-02-02T09:32:00.000+08:002014-02-02T09:32:35.527+08:00Hi Kak Ili! Salam! Last two days, I told Kak Ili (my naqibah) about my first year friends. Then spilled to her that I like to blog back then. So she said she wants to check my blog out. To 'assess' me before tarbiyah. Like so funny when I thought my posts.<br />
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I don't know if she'd read it though. But if you do Kak Ili, leave a comment :D<br />
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I'm having study week for finals. Wish me luck. Doakan agar aku dapat kekuatan untuk focus, ketenangan jiwa, hati dan otak untuk menerima ilmu yang bakal masuk. Ameeeen.<br />
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Toodles!Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-41780390708264852732013-12-17T08:49:00.001+08:002013-12-17T08:49:01.494+08:00Death<p>One thing I just knew about death are I don't like changes and replacement made because of their absence. </p>
<p>They just won't be the same, of course. It totally needs time to adapt with their absence, then i'll accept replacement.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-38685237686383256362013-10-30T18:08:00.001+08:002013-10-30T18:08:47.386+08:00<p>You know nothing, and you request bullshit.</p>
<p>Fyi, nak seribu daya tak nak seribu dalih.</p>
Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-68354225657305460302013-10-27T08:34:00.000+08:002013-10-27T08:34:35.434+08:00home.i feel like i've been ignored.<br />
i sat there, laughed and talked to them.<br />
but none of them responded.<br />
as if i'm not there.<br />
as if i'm invisible.<br />
<br />
it's sick to think what have i done.<br />
because i can't remember anything that was mean.<br />
only the smallest thing from asking them<br />
to throw out the rubbish,<br />
to wash the frying pan.<br />
<br />
it's sick to follow their pace.<br />
like, they ignore me and i shall ignore them too.<br />
actually i've tried.<br />
but failed terribly.<br />
failed as in i ended up being depressed.<br />
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depressed because after these 3 1/2 years,<br />
i never ignore anyone (unless we're pissed each other off)<br />
you and me were so fine.<br />
<br />Nani the Freakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09326346180651049181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2776080037676795205.post-70836030991257166742013-10-17T22:56:00.001+08:002013-10-17T22:56:01.603+08:00<p>Lawak bodoh macam intolerable when you're stress. </p>
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